So I am here and...

[DarkDwarf]

Anyway, I met this girl a couple weeks ago and we quickly hit it off. We shared a common interest in antagonizing our friends, but we had a lot in common. She's not the prettiest girl in the world, but I wouldn't exactly call her ugly. She's funny, good music tastes, enjoys the same sports I do, loves the beach. And I'm pretty sure I want to date her. But here I am, and I know she likes me, but now I'm having second thoughts.

I've been single for over a year and a half now. I go to the movies with my friends a lot, have a great time. I don't know whether or not I want to commit myself to a relationship now. Essentially, I've decided to give it a shot and ask her out on an "official" date in the upcoming days here and see how it goes, but I thought I'd post here about my "second thoughts". I don't think its about the girl, but more about the idea of a relationship in general.

[CompletePimp]

The best and most rewarding/successful relationships are the ones that do not limit you in any way in doing what you were doing before you got in it. (except having promiscuous sex with strangers of course but thats a given lol)

[agatha]

Court her if you really want her AND without any thoughts bothered on your mind. Think wisely before entering the relationship.

[Tedel]

All in all, I think it is not a good policy to force yourself into something you don't really want. Love almost always comes on its own to your life.

[Gigabitch]

Well, how about being very clear with her about the fact that you like her and think she's cool but are in no way ready to commit to a girlfriend right now? If she can be cool with that, you could have a lot of fun together. It's not like you're running around like some kind of man-whore and you're trying to keep your options open, right? You're just not into it. No reason she should flip out about that, since you're in high school still.