How do you tell what girls are looking for?

[Crispy12]

How can I tell if a girl is looking for more of a relationship or just sex? I'm more of a relationship kind of guy, and I want to make sure I'm not wasting my time getting into a relationship with a slutty girl who is just looking for sex or will cheat on me. How do you tell the difference between her being slutty and her just being really interested?

[vashti]

A girl who is interested in you as a person will continue to date you even if you arent sleeping together.

[Crispy12]

Good point, but some girls do kind of expect to sleep together while dating. Some girls may take it that I'm a cold fish or boring, and that's why I don't sleep with them. When is a good time period to actually start sleeping together?

[vashti]

When you both want to, and when you both are prepared to accept any negative consequences that may arise, such as unwanted pregnancy or STDs.

[Crispy12]

In college, most girls kind of expect to do that stuff when dating or at least soon after they actually start going out. How do I tell that without girls getting bored or thinking I'm a dweeb and that they should stop wasting their time?

[1averagejoe]

They'll figure it out when you start dating...it ain't rocket science. The initial dates is a way to get to know each other and what you want.

Don't worry about wasting their time or if you come off as a dweeb. Don't worry about them thinking you're a dweeb or boring, because if they get frustrated over you not wanting to have sex, they're probably whores and not worth your time.

[vashti]

Have you thought about dating religious girls? They are usually trying to save their virginity, too.

[1averagejoe]

Have you thought about dating religious girls? They are usually trying to save their virginity, too.

I went to Catholic high school...and I'll tell you it's usually the opposite of what you would assume of a good catholic girl. Only the very religious fanatical types are that way.

[vashti]

Wild Catholic girls are so common it's become a cliche.

Mormons tend to be quite conservative.

[TheGreek]

Yeah, I go to a Catholic high school and that's complete bullshit. More girls are sluts at the Catholic school then most other schools in the city.

[IndiReloaded]

Wild Catholic girls are so common it's become a cliche.

Isn't there a Billy Joel song about this? I can't think of the title right now.

[alter_ego]

Guess what she's after.... ah...what memories this video brings to life...

[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=24FT3u-lhg4"]YouTube - Billy Idol - Cradle Of Love[/ame]