need advice

[trishamarie2]

i met a guy saturday at a club. we hung out most of the night and he was really sweet and seemed into me. we exchanged numbers etc. his friend told me he is really shy and when he walked me to my car he told me if i dont hear from him in 3 days to call him. i KNOW it hasnt been 3 days and i KNOW i'm being impatient but thats just how i am. i sent him a text this morning just saying hey hun what you up to...havent heard anything back. what are the odds that he is actually going to call?

[Only-virgins]

He is probably just playing the waiting game. Just to make you feel exactly how you are feeling. That way when he calls you are relieved.

[Cbrider]

Where did this three day rule come about at? I know the rule and I follow it mostly, but who the hell came up with it?

P.S. O-V is spot on.

[ecojeanne]

he's basically left you to do all the work, 'IF' he doesnt call; he told you this! what a joke. i personally wouldn't be bothered with someone like that

[alter_ego]

what's the point of playing this waiting game?

Is it not better to be honest and show interest?

[Pahn]

3 days could be over now.. have you still heard from him??

if not, well just move on,, you may not realize you are just waiting for nothing.. besides, you just met him in a club, a place where most players look for someone to play with