I have a funny feeling I know the answer, but I will ask anyway. Collective wisdom is any day better than mine.
There is this chick I like very much. I know her from where I work. I asked for the number - I got it. We got talking in person and all the Indicators of Interest are there
-- She maintains eye contact like 90 % of the time.
-- Body pointed towards me all the time.
-- I went Kino in a nice way sometimes.
-- I do show that I care, but I act distant and aloof sometimes.
-- and lots more.
I came off thinking she likes me.
I was the one who initiated the calling but kept it at the rate of one call per two days. I was the ONLY one calling for almost a month.
Slowly she reciprocated. It took a while for her, but she started calling back. That's good news I guess.
We have fun during our conversations and it is always kept light.
I haven't gifted her with anything just as yet.
We talk every 2 days on the phone for an hour or so and then we meet like once or twice in a week where I work.
She just came out with me once fr a very short time out -- 2 hrs.
The question is:
All of this is nice, but today I mada casual attempt to ask her out like " I am going out for a drive, I think it would be fun if you join me" -- she had a presentation to do, so she said she can't make it.This is the 3rd time in 2 months I asked and each time there seems to be an excuse. The first time, it was that she was sick ( she genuinely was); she has a presentation to complete or an assignment to do ( she never lies, by the way).
About 3 hrs ago before I posted here, she did call. I didn't pick the call then.
What's happening?
I thought of confident persistence; I thought of her genuine reasons for not coming out.
I am confused :
1. Is she playing hard to get?
2. Is she not Interested?
3. Is she cautious and wants to take her time?
4. Am I coming on too strong? ( which I am not).
Please help. Thanks for taking the time to read up.