Im new here and really need your help :(

[Supaman]

hi, i joined the forum really because i need all the advice i can get on girls. basically i never had a serious girl friend and im 19 years old. i dumped chicks once i got sex. wasnt interested in anything else.

this one girl tho, i really wanna be with her, i wont say for the rest of my life lol im still young but who knows where it can lead to.

basically i met her on facebook, she lives about 1hr drive from me, we got to talkin, got her msn then her phone # and i only got to meet her 3times at clubs. other than that, its been phone/msn talk.

i made it clear in an indirect way that i was aiming to be more than friends with her from the start. i had to go miami for some time and didnt know when i was returning home tho so i told her and met with her at a club and gave her a necklace and told her i dunno when ill be back, all was going great at that time, she didnt want to take the necklace but she eventually took it lol.

i returned after 3 weeks tho, i was kinda mad at the time for a number of things so i wasnt the nicest person to her but ever since i returned she wasnt the same. wasnt giving me the same feelings as b4. wasnt answering my calls, only when i caugh her on msn and asked her about it then she just told me she didnt have her phone with her at the time.

i thought i did something wrong, so i met up with her through a friend arranging the meeting since she didnt answer my call. i gave her a stuffed puppy with a blank card and told her i would call her to tell her what was suppose to be on the card. she didnt want to take it tho but i told her i came from so far that she has to take it. she took it and b4 i called the next morning, i got a text from her saying she loved the gifts but please stop giving them to her, it makes her feel uncomfortable since she only likes me as a friend.

so i told her, i liked her more than a friend, but if its gotta be like that then thats how its gotta be. i then changed the topic. ever since she only chat on msn and stuff like that. she still givign me a feeling like she is testing me. like i told her ill be in her area past weekend, whats her new number (since she said her cell phone is lost) so i can contact her when im there, she asked what day then she went offline on msn. she came back online as usual the day after i was suppose to be there.

there are soooo much info in this, its too much to type in one. any help on how i can at least get back with this girl?

sorry for the long text, much appreciated if you take the time to read. thanks.

[Gigabitch]

Maybe your reputation caught up with you. If that's the case, I don't think you're going to have much luck with her.

[ecojeanne]

OMG! no offense but LEAVE HER ALONE! and stop giving her stuff. she doesn't want you and she also doesn't want your material gifts.

my belief on this situation is that you reckon you have spent money and effort and she SHOULD be grateful....right?

would you ever get lost and stop pressuring her, your attempt at controlling her isn't working so leave it!

i know i was really harsh here, but you really are not getting the message. it's obvious she doesn't want anything from you.

move on and find someone else who will want you