I hate my EX!!

[ecojeanne]

ok i'm happy for you, altho i think you're going thru a phase i went thru where i went out of my way to try and make him regret by showing how happy and successful i was without him...without contacting him but subtly sending messages out there,....he still didn't call to beg me back (so i could reject him, of course)....i think i just now came out of that and have been facing reality for the last week or so, i'm actually only just back to being the real me. you get to a point where you realise....actually he doesn't matter...wtf is my problem and wtf have i been torturing myself for?!....he was an idiot! what was i even thinking in the first place!

[vaneigem]

tell him everythg nice bout ur new guy n how happy ur date yesterday, hes awesome in bed (jz example. its better u dont make it up. tell true stories) better, pretend 2 ask him 2 b ur wingman 2 get ur so called 'the 1'.

Don't do this, it just makes you look like a horrible person. If it's trying to get him to like you again it won't work because it is so obvious that you're trying to make him jealous, and that sort of manipulative behaviour is REALLY unattractive to most guys when they notice it. An ex of mine turned up at a mutual friends birthday and spent most of the night flirting really obviously with my friends and barely acknowledging me; I felt hurt but it didn't make me want her more, I just felt disgusted at her-she tried to kiss me later in the night and I pulled away. If you want to make him jealous just out of vengeance, then don't, there's really no need for it and it will just make him hate you.

[lastwish]

It has been 3 months. I don't know why it is so hard. Yes, I hate him for walking away when I needed him but I still not over him and not over the good party of the memories. I am just weird.

3 months are nothing. It took me 2 years to finally get over the anger and strong emotions I had for my ex. Don't contact him at all...this step is very important. If you miss him...you don't have to suppress the thoughts of him (suppressing these thought won't do anything). Try to figure out why things didn't work out by reflecting on the break-up. Try to pin down what kind of guy you really want and look forward to finding that person in the future. It also helps by talking to someone you trust about it.