Uuuhm ok not sure how to ask this

[Mish]

im really not sure. i was quite young so i guess i didnt really understand that it was something i had to tell. as i grew older i just felt like i wanted to keep it to myself as so much time had passed.

the weird thing is, when ever we drive past the house, my dad would make me aware of the place of was babysat by 'such a caring old lady'. no one knows except my boyfriend

What an awful thing to live with

I think you should've told your parents for better or for worse. Just for the fact that the reason why the perpetrators continue doing this is because a lot of the victims don't speak out enough

[lesa]

im really not sure. i was quite young so i guess i didnt really understand that it was something i had to tell. as i grew older i just felt like i wanted to keep it to myself as so much time had passed.

the weird thing is, when ever we drive past the house, my dad would make me aware of the place of was babysat by 'such a caring old lady'. no one knows except my boyfriend

uuhh *hugs*

[sine24]

yeah another big reason i wanted to keep my mouth shut was because i felt like there was all ready too much drama. parents were going through a divorce battle ever since i could remember so at the time i felt like my problems were miniscule in comparison.

[Gigabitch]

I told my daughter this morning that there are six people lining up to help me dispose of the stinking corpse of anyone who ever dares to touch her inappropriately.

God, I hope she never feels she has to hide something like that from me. Nobody should have to carry this kind of burden alone.

[silenteaux]

sorry its taken me so long to get back to this-i have pretty sparatic use of a desktop and its way too annoying to post anything lengthy on my phone.

But I was going to tell him this weekend-but he worked all weekend, of course. So I don't know, I'm starting to rethink telling him, or anyone really. It's probably just one of those things better left unsaid.

Sine, i'm so sorry all of those things happened to you.. But I can definitely relate to having your problems feel minuscule. It's like, how can this one even seem to define everything... effect me so badly... but it does.

Vashti, really, I'm not close to a lot of people. And by not a lot I mean maybe two, maybe. My boyfriend is really the only person i actually trust, 100%. ok maybe not 100, but like 95%?

Aeradalia, I think you definitely have something there, the whole goodness parents seem to see in their children is really, really damaged with this. After I told my mom about the first one she could hardly be in a room with me for longer than 5 minutes... Though she's never told me why I'm assuming that it's what you've deduced here.

[IndiReloaded]

After I told my mom about the first one she could hardly be in a room with me for longer than 5 minutes... Though she's never told me why I'm assuming that it's what you've deduced here.

Your mom sucks. That is all. If you were my girl, I'd be loving you more than ever. Your mother lacks the maturity to put her feelings aside to be able to support yours.

Vent here if it helps.

*kiss*

[sine24]

hey silenteaux,

im really happy for you in a way, in that you are able to release just a little of that burden to us.

i still carry what i went through, but its not something that will take hold of me.

i hope you know that you can turn to people for a dose of comfort , be it a boyfriend, professional counsellor, or the myriad of views LF has to offer.

much love,
sine24

[Mish]

I'm not close to a lot of people. And by not a lot I mean maybe two, maybe. My boyfriend is really the only person i actually trust, 100%. ok maybe not 100, but like 95%?

Why is that? Why are there so few people that you trust? I think that you definetly need to expand your friend base you are relying on too few people for support and it's very unhealthy.