How to get over from a very serious break-up

[djman]

My heart was broken 3 weeks ago and i'm still suffering from this pain. Even i think such a bad thinks that how can i get her back. Getting back her is impossible at all because she was married to someone else she didn't love.
We have fallen in love with each other and our love is so strong. We are muslim, we had to follow our tradition. Even we run away together but they didn't want to cancel the wedding. So, finally, we had to give in to cruel fame. I know she is with someone and she is also suffering so much. Why do i think so because she loves me more than i love her. Sometimes bad thoughts come to my mind. What is more, i will take the most important exam after one month, this all is affecting to my study adversely. Please give me some advice. Her university is by the library that i go twice in a week so that it is fact that i may see her again several times.

[Dasein]

How long were you seeing each other? Was it an arranged marriage for her?

[xjadedx]

Sounds like it was an arranged marriage for her....and to a guy she doesn't love. Undoutedly her father will have chosen her husband and she would have had no choice but to marry this guy. Can't she just leave this guy or divorce him if she doesn't love him? What kind of life is that to bestow upon your son/daughter. To place them in a situation whereby they are expected to be with a man/woman they are not happy with? Life is too short to be unhappy....

I feel for you, I really do and I can't honestly think of a solution to your problem...

Other than run away together......but would that be a wise idea?

[djman]

How long were you seeing each other? Was it an arranged marriage for her?

We were seeing each other for 3 years.
Yes it was arranged marriage for her. However, she was against
this marriage.

[djman]

We run away 3 days before wedding and there three days to. One day before we tought that they cancelled wedding. However, we were mistaken and instead of cancelling it they give us to police to find us. And that day we came my flat and then we heard that
about police. Consequently, she was afraid of me and thought i might lose my job and continue my study in abroad. As stated i will take exam for study abroad. Even though i tried dissuade her to not go her home, she went home and asked her parents to stop police. She sacrifices herself and married another person for her parents and me. She is angel.