End of my rope

[angelicanimal]

I've been in my relationship for 2 years. I have 2 kids from a previous relationship and we have a son and another on the way so 4 kids in total. At first he was very attentive and loving. He would never let a conversation end without an I love you. He proposed to me in Feb of 2008. Things started to go downhill pretty much after that. He quit his job (and has a habit of doing that ALL the time) and keeps changing then quitting then changing etc....I am always making sure my money goes towards the bills and food and he gets mad when I tell him we can't afford beer or a movie or something. Hes been pulling away from me.... Won't sleep in our room, uses the excuse it hurts his back so he sleeps on the couch. Won't touch me barely. I can count on one hand how many times we have been intimate lately. He tells me he doesn't want us to break up etc same old same old but I'm just not sure what to do anymore. I love him but I feel like he is not in that place with me anymore

[ButterflyDreamz]

Talk to him and tell him how you feel. If he doesn't get his act together, I'd suggest you end it with him. He seems a bit parasitic (as in he's living off of you). You're obviously not feeling any love from him..is it worth staying with him?

[Indignant]

Babe, why do you need this loser? You do know a definition of a real man, and he is not one of them. It will only be hard for a short while but you have 3 kids who will be there to support you everyday for the rest of your life.