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    together or apart?

    i was talking to some girls the other day and they were chatting about how to sleep with another person int he bed? together or apart some were like 'snuggling rules!' when others were 'sleeping is a one person sport' so i was just wondering the general consensus!

    which is it snuggle time or seperate?

    personally i like my room to sleep cant snuggle pisses me off! lol
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    I'm going to go with spooned up or happily curled around each other. Always together. I hate sleeping apart from someone I'm intimate with, it just feels weird!
    "You will always be loved, and you will always be in love with love... Don't be afraid. There are exquisite things in store for you. This is merely the beginning." - The Picture of Dorian Gray - Oscar Wilde.

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    I start off snuggling..why not? Eventually I might turn over. I've said it before in a very similar thread - there is little romance in sleep, despite idealism. It's not productive and comfortable to lay in each other's embrace the whole night.

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    Maybe it's an age thing but when I was younger, I wanted space but now (30s) I prefer to spoon.

    In fact, it's become a bit of a kink of mine (when condums aren't an issue) to have sex and afterwards fall asleep inside her.

    Carl.

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    the one thing about me is i like to be alone, i'm not touchy feely, i don't hug my friends or family but when i'm sleeping beside a person it's the one time i feel safe, i don't have bad dreams and rest easy and that's the one time i want to be held, i don't mind if they roll over eventually but i would like to start off with touching in some way vs. just hopping into bed and passing out.

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    I like to stay spooned... but thats just me

    I have one friend (girl), who hates staying in a cuddled position. She always sleeps on her stomache, and if she is in a cuddled position after sex, she will eventually push there arm off so she can sleep in her position. "/

    To each there own...

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    I like to snuggle and cuddle until I fall asleep, I eventually roll over but if I ever happen to wake up she is always still holding onto my arm
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