Originally Posted by
Justsomeone22
She sounds very confused...I had a similar experience with a co worker as of late. She has been dating a fellow co worker for a while now and they seemed to not be getting along. She's 21 he's 32 not that it's really that relevant but basically I'm trying to say I think it's honestly just the level of maturity in the woman your dealing with. I'm 23 but I'd say I'm a little more mature than I should be. Needless to say the situation went down very similar to yours until I decided that even as her being my friend...she should have never strung it along. I feel the same for you friend...don't be readily available and don't let her string you along and keep you on the back burner for when things fail with her and her BF/ex-BF...because apparently eventually things will fail and you don't want to be the guy she strung along to help her pick up the pieces. Play the field a little maybe even let it be known your seeing other women...after all she is still involved with him in some way...I can promise you that. Enjoy yourself and give her that space and time and maybe even blow her off a little..after a week or two of that she'll be all over your business. At least thats how my experience went..of course I'm still blowing her off and taking another woman to our company xmas party...so just keep an open mind and don't read into it too much. Enjoy whatever it is she offers you in the long haul and eventually she's going to indicate verbally or sexually when the time is right to proceed. I hope this helps and goodluck!