help me pls

[JasonVoorhees]

here's my story
after 3years my girlfriend dumped me for no practical reason other then wanting to stay alone. she was feeling sick for a week until one day i asked her if it is about us and she said "yes i dunno" but then i told here if she wanted to go home and she told me yes and i took her home and talked on msn (chatting program) and told me the bad news that she wanted to break up. at that moment i just said ok but then after some hours i started to feel pain and sadness which i tried to get her back with showing her how muc h i love her. she got to my home i cried and she got back with me for 3days which then she dumped me again because she couldnt resist more.i decided to give her time as i read an e-book that the only way to get her back is to play it cool with her and dont panic or else she will bounce back more.

she's showing these simptoms after 2days. she came from her frist day at work and started talking and talking and talking of all she did during her first day , i was like O_O

today i was going out and she was like, pls dont drink alot and pls dont fight promise me pls . i told her ok and she told me if something happenes just call me like you loose money or anything. i told her why you'd come for me? she said yes. i told her my friend doesn't have credit to msg her (i dont own a mobile ) and she told me then i'll just call and she how you are. i told her ok. she din't call dough and when i came home she got online to check if i was ok and when i asked her why didnt she call she said "cause i know you would be ok my mind is good" and then she said "else i would have ended coming up to you"...

then i asked her where she went and she didnt tell me. she didnt want to cause was afraid to hurt me , but i forced her too because i had told her everything where im going (maybe i did wrong?) and she told me she went out with a friend (male) for a ride to remove her sadness but just as friends not date and i believe her because she doesn't lie, i'v like grown this girl myself from when she was 14 and she never lies because i teached her that.

i want to know if there's still a chance for this relationship cause its my greates dream to have her back. pls help me.

[Aimee]

My impression so far is that it sounds like she is your friend and she cares about you, but that she doesn't want to be with you in a romantic relationship anymore.

Maybe she wants to experience different people and situations on her own.

I used to think things like if someone breaks up with me now does that mean they're gone forever? Is there a chance things will turn back around and they'll return because that happens with some relationships... And usually when I felt I knew the answer was "no" I didn't want to believe it.

She's your friend. But move on for now (though don't lose her as a friend).

[JasonVoorhees]

btw i forgot to mention this. she swears she still loves me and she just left me because she just wants to be alone and she doesn't want to date man thats not her intentions and she told me she will stay single for a long time she doesn't want any dates or relationship.