Desperately need some advice

[carl1222]

Sorry if I was unclear about this. I meant it as a warning in NEW relationships where a gal doesn't want to get too attached too soon to a guy. Apparently, repeated physical contact (like hugs) make it much more likely a girl will feel 'love' (i.e. hop in the sac) than if she holds herself more reserved.

Indi ... I agree with that. The uniquely human "love" takes attraction, compatibility, commitment and time, and anyone who says they're "in love" after 3 months, 3 weeks, 3 dates, 3 minutes ... is confusing infatuation with love for sure.

Maybe we are not so far apart on this after all.

Carl.

[Gigabitch]

Neither of the guys involved are as important as the fact that this is going to damage YOU. You have become someone that does morally reprehensible things.

Make a choice and clean up your act- you can't have both.