Originally Posted by
vashti
I have to admit I never really understand attempting to have a relationship with people who live so far away. I mean, it's one thing if you meet them face-to-face, and they happen to live far away. It's quite another (to me) when you've never actually interacted in person.
Do YOU think you are commitment-phobic ?
I'm not entirely sure, Vash, but don't think I am commitment-phobic. I really do want to settle down with someone in my life right now and have that stability.
I just can't figure out why I would put so many hurdles in front of myself in terms of finding a stable relationship. Unless it says more about the state of dating in NYC than me.
Vegas guy is not the only guy I'm writing to. There are some others here in the city that I may go on some dates with. He's just the one I'm the most attracted to at the moment. So I'm not completely ruling out local guys, but still...there's something odd about the fact that the last few guys I've had the most "sparks" with have been in other cities.
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