Originally Posted by
Anonymous Girl
our problem lies: I don't like it and he does.
This is all that it boils down to. The rest is just the aggrevation and heartache that comes from not getting your way.
Welcome to the concept of relationships... two people who are compatible in some ways and different in other ways... trying to stay together for the benefit and enjoyment of both.
If you destest him liking porn, then ask him to be polite and not share this with you. If you don't like him thinking about other women (even for a microsecond) then ask him to politely keep this to himself. However, he is not your pet or a machine you can control... just because you're such a 'great catch' does not mean he owes you his free will.
Nobody likes to be controlled... keep this up and you will lose him.
"The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."
- James Allen