Originally Posted by
lastwish
So..do you think this is only a temporary thing that can be overcomed with communication Or do you think if I continue with this, I would end up with someone who I will hate?
Well, that's why I wanted to get an answer to that question to find out what you want. I really can't answer these questions for you because I'm not you.
If you love his personality regardless of seeing him change and become like your ex and you still think you get along even after the date went poorly then you can continue to try and hope for the best. If you no longer like his personality and think you no longer have chemistry then you should stop with him and look for someone else.
There is also that issue of dating a friend of the ex that Vash pointed out as well. It's usually looked down upon and subject to judgment from others. Although there are success stories that do occur out of these, they tend to be in minority compared to failures.
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~