I have no idea how I'll actually come off after posting this but hopefully I wont be conveyed in a negative light.
An ex and I had a relationship for about 2 years. In these 2 years she was the absolute love of my life. Even though I had major trust issues. During the period of our relationship I was "the big man" on campus I'd say. I was 17 and was considered one of the smartest and best athletes in the school that I attended.
My senior year rolls around and my team sputters. And soon thereafter my girlfriend at the time leaves me for a girl. I did everything that I possibly could for her and I loved her more than life itself. During the time that she was in a relationship with this girl she would constantly call me with her problems and concerns and I always let her know my thoughts on her matters. I typically wasn't upset and I tried to help her out the best that I could. I still loved her, so I wanted to do anything in my power to keep her with happy or get her to come back.
Well during this period I lost all of my friends and was left alone and by myself. And it hurt. BAD. It was the type of pain that could make a 6'2" 250 pound person who was used to enduring pain cry like a baby every single day. And, it caused me to fall into a very deep depression that I still haven't recovered from.
Its now 3 years later and I still love her deep down inside. I don't convey it to her at all. Its bad enough that whenever I see her, i physically feel sick and I feel pain. It still hurts. BADLY. There are far too many things that remind me of her. So forgetting about her and cutting off contact is pretty much out of the question. Because there is no possible way for it to happen.
What am I supposed to do?
And am I wrong for feeling the way that I do?