Well, this question has been looming in my mind for sometime, and I am not entirely sure what is the more common answer. My dilemma is knowing at what point asking someone out is a good or bad idea.
From previous experience, I would only ask a girl on a date if I was absolutely infatuated with her, this lead to a slew of rejections, but I had a few relationships out of this too....
My last relationship, I asked a girl out who I wasn't particularly interested in, more as a 'why not' ... which ended up being a year-long relationship, then she turned crazy. ...
About a month and a half ago, I asked a girl I was pretty interested in, but not entire infatuated over. We had 2 dates, and that was it...
Annnyhow, moving forward from the background information, I was curious/confused what is the typical norm for dating. I am 21 and know enough to have the balls to ask someone out if I am really interested in them... but what if I 'kind-of' interested, as in theres a little chemistry going on?
I guess this topic comes down to asking:
Do you have a certain threshold of interest before asking someone out?