Originally Posted by
Soccer2928
After 4 days of not talking, my ex messaged me saying that for right now she wants to be just friends. I pretty much knew that this was going to be the case (so I really wasn't disappointed) because if she really wanted to be with me and her feelings really did come back, then she would have said she wanted to be with me instead of saying she didn't know what she wanted in the first place. She told me that she is just really confused right now about a lot of things, and I told her that I understood. I told her that I still love and care about her but that I am sick of waiting, and I agree that we should just be friends. I told her that if an opportunity for me to date or go out with someone else comes along then I am definitely going to take it, and I am not going to wait for her to make up her mind. I told her that since she first told me that she no longer had feelings for me (about a month ago), and she said that we would not be together again that I had really moved on, and I didn't think that we would be getting back together either. I honestly don't know what is going to happen between us. I think there might always be a chance for us to get back together because of the history we have and because we still love and care about each, but I am not going to stop living my life and stop having fun while she tries to figure things out. However, I will be there for her as a friend and I know that I always want her a part of my life. If she does decide that she wants to be with me then that is definitely a possibility, but until that happens I am going to continue living my life and having fun. Does anyone think that I said the right things and that I should feel this way?