Please Help You Guys.. I'm having a sticky situation...PLEASE!!

[DharmicLove]

So, I kinda indirectly met a guy about six months ago, who actually, quite hilariuosly, is my weed man. Yes I do smoke reefer, and it is not a problem for me as it helps to expand my creative process. Anyway, so I didnt know him, and my cousin hooked me up with this connect.

From the very first moment I laid eyes on this man I had a crush on him. I would beg my cousin to call him, but he would never answer the phone for him, because my cousin is not exactly the most attractive guy.

So fast forward to Christmas, I'm at some friends house, because of course, Im a social butterfly. And low and behold, he walks through the door. I didnt recognize him at first but as the night progressed I began to realize who he was. His name is G, and a dead giveaway was that people kept calling him G.

I left that night, without acknowledging him really, because in a way, I prefer to be chased as opposed to showing a guy my interest in him. It has always worked in the past.

Well, we didnt talk that night, but on another occasion we got down to it. I told him actually that I had a crush on him for a long time. He replied back, "well why didnt you say anything, you know close mouths dont get fed." The conversation was cut short, because someone walked into the room, and he's one of those DL dudes I have told you'll about in the past, so he doesnt like for anyone to know his business.

Fast forward again to just this past thursday, we are corresponding through text messages. I initiated with a little clever message, and he responds within 30 seconds with a, "Wassup, I was just thinking about you." So I said, "thinking what about me?" And he say's, "Well I was thinking that we should get up, chill, smoke some weed, and drink one on one." So I said, "Definitely, I would love that." And anway, to make a long story short, we ended up getting up later on that night, but it wasnt on a one on one basis, there were people around.

What I can say is that it got steamy, and we were all over each other in a subtle way. So he told me that he was available at certain times, and that I should contact hiim then. That was thursday, today is sunday. I havent spoken with him since. I am not used to having to come on to men, because they flock to me, and he's quite different because he doesnt drool all over me, AND I AM VERY ATTRACTED TO THAT. Should I call him? I kinda feel like in more ways than one I've developed feelings for him. What am I too do guys...what am I to do?!?

[lesa]

If he really wants you for a serious relationship he will contact you. He knows that you exist. He hesitates because he is not looking for anything serious. He is probably excited about the taboo. I would control my feelings and find someone more in sync.

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

Yea, unless you just want sex I suggest you leave this guy alone. Just from how he talks I sense he isnt a one man kinda guy. But hey if you just want to **** with no attachment go ahead...though I doubt there's any woman who can be friends with benefits and actually stick to just that without emotion.

[misombra]

he might be a little intimidated by you.

[Gigabitch]

Dude. What, exactly, is your question? Should you call him? IMO, no you should not, but that's because I think all this sneaky, DL shit is disgusting. Don't you want to be with someone who is proud to be with you? Someone who wants to take you out and show you off? Don't you get sick of feeling like a whore?

Come on, Dharmic. This has GOT to be getting old for you.

[mattyb715]

i'm one of those dl guys. it isn't because i'm not proud of the girl i'm with. i keep my love life on the dl because when i do bring a girl around my friends, and my friends know i'm interested in her, they make a huge deal about it. enough to usually scare off the girl i'm interested in. past has proven to work out better if i keep things to myself. he's probably just lookin a piece of ass tho if he's making you call him.

[TipsGoda]

i think if hes into you he will find you..so,i dont you should rush for it.take it slow..and play with time a bit..that will test him whether hes into you or no..you should be careful not to be taken advantage of...

[Charlie Boy II]

Dharmic is a fag, btw. He is a bloke. His love interest is not openly gay. That's what he means by on the DL

Yes you should call him.

[Only-virgins]

Yes I do smoke reefer, and it is not a problem for me as it helps to expand my creative process.

Oh yea! I totally believe this!...NOT! ..GTFO of here.

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

Dharmic is a....guy?

[lesa]

Dharmic is a....guy?

You didn't know?

[Only-virgins]

Dharmic is a fag, btw. He is a bloke. His love interest is not openly gay. That's what he means by on the DL

Yes you should call him.

Que? ...how the **** are people supposed to know all these little internet slangs and shit? wtf

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

Nope not at all. Sometimes I dont really pay attention to the older posts so I dont remember the back story.

Reading this thread reminds me of something I had in mind and might put into my own thread one day.

But on topic, I'm guessing the guy you're after is bi if he feels this DL thing. Shit, probably got a woman at home too. I just wouldnt trust such a situation, and I dont think it's worth getting into. Cuz we all know you'll be back here complaining about how bad things went because he wasnt faithful. But it is up to you to decide if you want to take a risk and jump into it, but I personally would not do it.

[Charlie Boy II]

no I remember him from before. According to him something like 40% of guys secretly want to get boofed by another guy

[lesa]

Que? ...how the **** are people supposed to know all these little internet slangs and shit? wtf

ROFLMAO at OV deleting part of his post. There was no need to do that. Aren't you comfortable with your own sexuality?