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Thread: oh so confused..

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    oh so confused..

    okay, ill try to keep this as short as i can :/.

    ive been dating this guy for about 5 months now and im completely confused.

    he tells me he loves me, and he does take time out every now and then to see me..but to be honest, hes skinny and has a great body..im, lets just say not a size 2..hes always making fun of 'cubby/fat' people and it really bothers me. he tells me im not fat, but he calls his ex a land whale when she weighs only about 150..i weigh a little more than that.

    what is his motive here? hes always grabbing at my stomach and i tell him that makes me uncomfortable and the next day, hes back doing it.

    i just dont know what to think about this..can someone enlighten me on what you think is going through his mind..

    i really dont think he loves me.

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    He obviously thinks you're fat and won't admit it. If you're having sex, it's clear what his motives are.

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    Ugh. Break up with that jackass immediately.
    Spammer Spanker

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    if he loves you he'd have the decency not to call his ex a land whale when he knows you weighed more than her.

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    ditch him.

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