Vashti, your advice was awesome.
Thank you all... I think I know how to deal with this now
Vashti, your advice was awesome.
Thank you all... I think I know how to deal with this now
what? i am only being realistic while the rest of you are being idealistic. there's a difference.
while i give kudos to her for not giving it up easily, i would like to know how it progresses.
The male is a domestic animal which, if treated with firmness, can be trained to do most things
Don't you think anyone likes you enough to want to spend time with you if there wasn't any sex involved, indignant?
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
That's what I want. To filter out all the ones who think sex is more important than compassionate love and being with me.
Indignant, you say "giving it up" as if sex were like leverage. I just don't want to be intimate with someone with whom I don't feel... well, intimate, heh.
I would like to know what are Indignant's success rates?
In other words why should we take your advice Indignant?
If you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best. ~ Marilyn Monroe
The male is a domestic animal which, if treated with firmness, can be trained to do most things
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
Even the players value the woman who waits. If he really likes her he will appreciate her more.
If he is not willing to wait then he was not the man for you and sex would not have changed that. However, it may keep him around just a little bit longer. But that's not really great, is it?
If you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best. ~ Marilyn Monroe
Always splitting, I'd pay if I was quite a bit ahead financially, but splitting is perfectly fine and more or less expected.
Drop the games of offering to split it and then wanting him to decline, either he pays straight away and you stay silent or you split the bill.
Also, if its a really expensive meal many guys would probably end up expecting you to "repay"...In bed.
The male is a domestic animal which, if treated with firmness, can be trained to do most things