Well- There is this guy that I have talked to on and off for about 2 years. Things never got to serious though, but no relationship ever got to serious with him. Hes really indecsisive when it comes to relationships and he changes his mind alot. but for some odd reason- im stuck on him. Its like we'd start talking alot then hed change his mind- then id move on... and hed want me back. I had one sort-of-serious relationship that I just got out of and hed tell me how hard it was for him to see and hear me with the other guy. He told me how much I meant to him and how much he always had cared for me... throughout we were always somewhat "best friends". So after I ended things with the other guy and a few months went by- I thought Id give him a chance again because THIS TIME i thought things were different and he made it seem like they would of been. Well... we started talking again (for the hundredth time!!) and then somehow he found out a couple days earlier I had kissed my ex. To me it was just a friendly kiss, thats all. But to him- it obviously wasnt and he stopped talking to me, calling, and whatever. I tried talking to him and letting him know, but nothing got through to him... not to mention he never returned my phone calls. Id talk to his best friend (which is also one of my good friends) and he told me that he thinks I am just playing games with him... but thats not it!! Im really serious about things and I want things to work. I dont think its fair that he got mad at something to this extent when it happened before things with me and him even began to happen. So I thought Id give him some time to think things over and then try to talk to him? He means alot to me and I want him to know if he gave me the chance I would treat him right, but the truth is- he has never given me the chance because hes so scared of getting hurt! How do you get through to someone like this!!! Its hard for me to keep all this in without telling him so what do I do?? And its not like I dont see him or anything- hes part of my group of friends and I see him practically everyday which tears me up knowing I cant have him. ADVICE?!?!