just looking for advice

[greeneyedangel3]

i have dated more then a few army guys usually they start off as friends and then we end up dating and everything usually goes well for a while then we split which is usually fine. But i was/am kinda into this guy that just came home from iraq he asked me to be his gf a couple weeks ago. Then all of a sudden last friday he desided he didnt want a relationship. He wanted me to spend almost every night with him and always was talking to me even before he asked me out and he said that he thought things were moving to fast. im so confused. What do i do??

[ecojeanne]

don't spend every night with him, space it out more to give you both breathing space. you both need that at the beginning of a relationship anyway. almost every night sounds too fast and he has recognised this. hang back and take it easy

good luck

[greeneyedangel3]

we split already like we ended it last friday but i like honestly like him and he is pulling the whole i just want to be friends thing now .

[windwalker]

When people visiting Disneyland in the first time, everything looks exciting, but if they keep visiting for the next few more weeks, the experience become boring.
If you know how to play the desire game well, you could capture their heart in real good time.

[mom44g]

Yes, I agree; if you just back off and start doing things on your own with your own friends, he may come around. If not, perhaps because he just got back he may want to play the field a bit. How old is he?