How to ask her out?

[djin]

Hi there,

I have a question for the lady’s & gents on the forum.
Let me take you to my situation:

Well, a few days ago I went to this place “Hair-Body –Care” to buy a new product.
It wasn’t my first time that I went to there. So I was talking to the manager there, asking how he was doing and how the business was going (as usually).
Suddenly this really cute gorgeous girl came downstairs (like Cinderella), probable she was new there.
Hm, where was I, so they had this new treatment called “the 7 Chakra’s”, so he asked her to give me a free treatment.
It was nice, we talked and it felt really good, I mean after the treatment (don’t get strange ideas, I’m a nice guy ;p).
You know the feeling when u talk with that person close to u, u get a warm feeling inside, and the words don’t come out of your mouth because of her beauty.
It’s strange u know, because I see and know lots of pretty lady’s but can’t get the same felling I felt for her.
Normally I go 1-2 times a month to the place for a massage, so I was planning to make a new appointment.

One big problem: I don’t know if she’s got someone or not.
So my option was to talk with her first and ask her some questions like:”u got plans for valentine” -> Yes= bad luck, No= continue conversation.
How would u feel ad work when a guy comes and talks with u and asked u out, to a drink or dinner?
Any other conversation tips are welcome.

Thanks.

[Sonrisa]

valentine = no

asking for coffee = yes

[TheGreek]

I agree with sonrisa. Don't ask her out for valentine's. Just ask her if she'd like to grab coffee or get a drink sometime and exchange numbers. Don't think about her beauty though, man. She's constantly surrounded by guys that are intimidated by it. Be as confident as you can be. And if you aren't confident just yet, fake it till you make it bro. Good luck and let us know how it goes.

[Gigabitch]

Are you aware that people that do body work are not supposed to date their clients?

[Sonrisa]

Are you aware that people that do body work are not supposed to date their clients?

yeah, its a COI, but happens all the time though.

[djin]

Hi again,

Thx for the advice.
The reason I wane ask her, if she’s got something to do on valentine is because I wane know if she’s single or not.
But like “Sonrisa” said: “asking for coffee” is a better idea I think.
U got some brains there Greek, u’r totally right about it.

Next Tuesday I have a appointment for a back massage.
I don’t know who’s gone give the massage, but all luck if it’s her.
If not: is it a good idea to ask the other person that gives the massage, if that girl is seeing someone?
I’m aware that they can’t date clients, but that happens all the time, that’s inevitable.
Btw, all the persons that work there are lady’s (except for the manager: Gay), don’t get me wrong I don’t have any problems with gay people, otherwise I wouldn’t go there u know.

[djin]

Well, today I got the massage from someone I already know (very good person).
I didn’t see the other girl, so I asked the person if she was seeing someone and she already got a BF.
Too bad, all the good ones are already taken.
But I learned one thing about this situation: if you wane ask a girl out, just go for it.
Otherwise u will be angry add yourself why u didn’t talk to her.
Thx for your advices and I wish u’ll a wonderful valentine’s day.