Fear of Love

[Unexperienced]

Hello, my name is Teemu. I'm from Finland and I'm 17 years old. I would like to ask a question from you experienced people. It's simple:

Can a person live without love?

I have a difficult situation. About 5 years ago I knew what I wanted to be, a soldier. I've always had that nature of helping and protecting those in need. I'm quite interested in politics and on one religion in particular which I hate for it's immoral ways. So, I'll be going to Afghanistan to fight the War on Terror, no doubts about that, but... I'm also the kind that drives women's rights and I could never hurt a girl... Physically NOR EMOTIONALLY, I'd rather shoot myself right there.

So, heres my problem. I know there's a possibility I might die for the "cause", I like to call it... But the side effect of me dieing would probably be a broken heart for that particular special girl. I can't even stand the thought of that. I've NEVER been in a relationship so far and It's driving me nuts even though I am the social kind of a guy and I've been told that I look rather handsome, and I think I am ok. (Stripes_Reaper on myspace for those who want to check )

This is something I can't cure, it's who I am... I can't love but I fight for women's rights.

Can I live without love?

[Sonrisa]

what is your dilemma?

[Gigabitch]

I think you should have a relationship before you go into the military, Unexperienced. You have some big decisions to make that should be made with some perspective on the possibility of loss. I don't think inexperienced boys should be sent to war.

[Unexperienced]

I think you should have a relationship before you go into the military, Unexperienced. You have some big decisions to make that should be made with some perspective on the possibility of loss. I don't think inexperienced boys should be sent to war.

Well I still would have the problem, unless I engage in a relationship with someone who doesn't really care for me. Well I'm basicly made to hold a rifle. ^^

[Gigabitch]

Well I still would have the problem, unless I engage in a relationship with someone who doesn't really care for me. Well I'm basicly made to hold a rifle. ^^

You just think that because you've never held a bare breast in your hand. At least give it a try.

[Unexperienced]

You just think that because you've never held a bare breast in your hand. At least give it a try.

Heh, that'd be suicide. I told you I don't want to hurt a girl emotionally.

Still I haven't received an answer to my question.

[Sonrisa]

what was your question? please be reasonable when you ask

[Gigabitch]

Well, to answer your question, you can live without love but I wouldn't recommend it.

[Unexperienced]

what was your question? please be reasonable when you ask

"Can a person live without love?"

Gigabitch:

That's all I wanted to know, thanks.