Confused...

[tomditti]

My girlfriend of two and a half years broke up with me about seven weeks ago. She broke up because I’ve been neglecting her for the four last months because I have been working a lot . Right after the break up she wanted me back but I messed up accusing her of various things and scared her away. After that I got needy and clingy and she always rejected me with “I still love u but I don’t have the energy no more”. Since then I have been playing it cool. She was in our apartment the other day to pick up her last stuff. While she was there a friend of mine called and she answered. My friend then told me that she was very upset because she thought she had found a bloodstain in our bed assuming I had a girl there. She also told my friend “He has really gotten over me, he seems so happy. How could he do this in our bed?”. My friend then asked if she was over me, my ex replied “Yes,I think so.”. Then my ex started to accuse me for destroying the relationship(Not because of this incident) to my friend. Further my friend told her that she wished that we could work things out. My ex then replied “Yes I do too, but we’re too different.”.
Two hours later she has got a new boyfriend on facebook…? He’s 21 ,she’s 26 and I am 29.
Help me read the signs of this because I want her back badly… By the way the stain was tomato soup.

[SteveTip]

Dude you just need to stop talking to her. It was good of you to call her and tell her that it needed to end but all you need to do now is have a clean break. That means never talking to her no matter what the situation is. Tough love basically. Trust me, you will feel so much better off in the long run. The only reason she went and got a new boyfriend that is younger than you is obviously because she wants to make you jelous. All you need to do is let her know that you DO NOT care whatsoever. This will make her think she did the wrong thing but also make you feel a lilttle better knowing she probably wants you back. But the minute she calls you and starts to talk about "old" times is when you know she wants you back and thats the hardest part when you have to just act like you dont care. I have found that acting pre occupied helps a lot, this way she will be wondering what you are doing all the time and thinking about how she messed up. But no matter what, DO NOT take her back.

[tomditti]

But i'm not sure that this relationship is real. Come on two hours... after being hurt. A little suspicous... I know this guy got dumped two months ago by a cheating girlfriend. Maybe they just want to make me and the ex gf jealous.

[Gigabitch]

Maybe there's "tomato soup" in her bed now.

He's a rebound. Let it run it's course, then be available when she gets done doing whatever she feels she has to do.