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    I am a woman,and I am asking the guys,If you cheated on your wife who has been faithful to you for all of the years that you know her,and she now found out from somebody else,what would you do?and how do you expect her to react to the news?and what will be your next step?.

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    Quote Originally Posted by madaline1964 View Post
    I am a woman,and I am asking the guys,If you cheated on your wife who has been faithful to you for all of the years that you know her,and she now found out from somebody else,what would you do?and how do you expect her to react to the news?and what will be your next step?.
    is this a relevant question?
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    I'd flat out deny it and attempt to discredit the snitch. Same as any other man.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gribble View Post
    I'd flat out deny it and attempt to discredit the snitch. Same as any other man.
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    Quote Originally Posted by madaline1964 View Post
    I am a woman,and I am asking the guys,If you cheated on your wife who has been faithful to you for all of the years that you know her,and she now found out from somebody else,what would you do?and how do you expect her to react to the news?and what will be your next step?.

    You have to look at this from a more logical perspective and less from a moral perspective.

    If the guy is cheating on his wife, then it's clear that morality doesn't even enter into the equation.

    He may cheat for several reasons... all of which is irrelevant other than the fact he wants to cheat and wants to do so discretely.

    How does a man go about cheating without getting caught? By keeping the woman oblivious or confused... and when someone does 'snitch' on him... he will do everything within his power to discredit such a person.

    However, if he can no longer discredit those who call him out... can no longer keep the woman oblivious or confused... then he will deny, deny, and deny. May even blame the woman that it was her 'insecurities' that caused the demise of the relationship. And even if he does admit to cheating... he'll blame her for it as he walks out the door.

    Btw... what was the motivation for your question?
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    Hmmm. In that situation, I'd sleep with one eye open and not eat her cooking, since the woman is possible going to murder my cheating ass.
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    I would never cheat on a spouse.

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    Quote Originally Posted by madaline1964 View Post
    I am a woman,and I am asking the guys,If you cheated on your wife who has been faithful to you for all of the years that you know her,and she now found out from somebody else,what would you do?and how do you expect her to react to the news?and what will be your next step?.
    I would never cheat in the first place,If I did she would find out cus I'd tell on myself.

    And I'd expect her to leave my ass.

    I can't stand cheaters.
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