The Ex is Back!

[bluesummer]

My ex did all the same stuff right before he flew to New York to go hook up with some other chick. He told her in emails that we were living together, but only because I needed his financial support (which was an utter lie - I paid for everything). He was also super sweet to me right before he left. He spent extra time with me and brought me presents.......then proceeded to turn his phone off for the entire week he was away. Cheating bastard.

The fact that he already told her in an email that he loves her and has been looking everywhere for her tells me he's definitely not over her, and is not just going to let this go. Maybe he'll dangle you both on the end of the hook for awhile while he decides which one he'd rather be with. If I were you I'd make the decision for him.

Put it this way - he's already cheating on you, emotionally. He's told this other girl he loves her and is purposely still holding onto her photos. That would be all I needed to walk out the door. Nowadays, anyway.

[NicoleKristin]

ouch, truth is bitter to swallow but am sure you are right.

[misombra]

dump him.

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[Gigabitch]

I do love the idea of him coming to Nicole, ready to break the hard news to her, and she's standing there with all the cards in her hand, though.

[bluesummer]

I think it would be fun to really make him squirm.....start talking about how lucky she is to have such a respectful, trustworthy, loyal man. Hopefully it will eat at his conscience.

Then dump him.

[NicoleKristin]

Ok…….so, he replies her with just one word in caps and this is what he wrote, “NONESENCE!” . Then she writes back in caps and says “F**** YOU, U THINK YOU ARE THE ONLY D***** IN AMERICA? GO TO HELL! Is this the end or just the beginning?? He has mentioned nothing to me!

[Gigabitch]

Gross. Why is he keeping a torch burning for this poisonous bitch? Why would anyone in his right mind keep her photos, look for her everywhere?

[misombra]

he likes the drama.

[Mish]

Ok…….so, he replies her with just one word in caps and this is what he wrote, “NONESENCE!” . Then she writes back in caps and says “F**** YOU, U THINK YOU ARE THE ONLY D***** IN AMERICA? GO TO HELL! Is this the end or just the beginning?? He has mentioned nothing to me!

Interesting development. Nice twist.

What are you going to do?

[NicoleKristin]

I dont know what I am going to do. I dont have "strong" grounds to "fire" him because he is not saying the "love" word anymore. But I will keep watching for any further communication between them.

[misombra]

he won't even introduce you as his girlfriend! that's it. you're crazy.

[carl1222]

I dont know what I am going to do. I dont have "strong" grounds to "fire" him because he is not saying the "love" word anymore. But I will keep watching for any further communication between them.

The latest developments may also mean they are on to you. Start looking at his cell phone!

Carl.

[NicoleKristin]

Thanks y'all, nothing much is really happening other than she wrote to him again and said that as long as he still keeps her photos, his love is enslaved to her forever....he has not written back. Other than

[NicoleKristin]

I was saying other than that, he is still being Mr. gentleman to me and infact he told be to be ready for a 3 day get away for Vals! Am not excited like I was last year, I feel like he should "explain" somthing to me but I wont bring up the topic, he should....maybe he wont!

[Gigabitch]

Nicole, I'd keep the fact that you figured out his password to yourself. Some of the things he said to her are going to resonate as time goes by and I can imagine you'd really want to keep track of his email activity.

Yes, people. I'm advocating spying..