she "kind of has a boyfriend"

[vashti]

No. Say it exactly like I originally wrote it. Your way sounds more like pleading.

"When you dump that boyfriend, I want to take you out dancing."

[jadelil25]

Three months is not too soon to be in a relationship after a break up. It sounds like she is unsure and that she maybe dating a guy.

It also maybe that she is not interested but she is too shy to say it to your face.

It maybe best to move on because to me it sounds like she is not interested and that she is coming up with excuses for not going out with you.

I know it will take time to get over her but you can do it. Go out and have fun with your friends, take your mind off it and you will meet someone when you least expect it. Someone who wants to be with you. There are plenty more fish in the sea!

[Mish]

see the shitty part is that this girl is absolutely amazing......

drop dead gorgeous and an amazing personality.

I ****ing hate how much I want her.




She will be mine.... Oh yes, she will be mine....

They are still not over yet and she still has commitment to him. Her telling you that is her nice way of letting you down easy. There is also a hard way of letting you down, if you don't want to find out what it is, let it go.

Sounds like you are out luck on this one.

[lightning88]

They are still not over yet and she still has commitment to him. Her telling you that is her nice way of letting you down easy. There is also a hard way of letting you down, if you don't want to find out what it is, let it go.

Sounds like you are out luck on this one.

"i sort of have a bf" = "I dont like you enough to be your girl" In chic slang.

[Only-virgins]

I bet you'll feel pretty damn awesome if you're able to steal her from her current bf, right?

And then you'll feel equally as shitty when she drops you and moves on to the next guy because he's better.

yea but by than he already gets some ass.

[Only-virgins]

drop dead gorgeous and an amazing personality.

And she is gorgeously having sex every night with someone else.

[lightning88]

yea but by than he already gets some ass.

thats not funny,cheating is no joke.

And she is gorgeously having sex every night with someone else.

not neccisarily true, just cus she has a bf doesnt mean they are having sex and deff doesnt mean everynight. Since she refered to him as her "sort of bf" I doubt they are.

[Cain]

thats not funny,cheating is no joke.

not neccisarily true, just cus she has a bf doesnt mean they are having sex and deff doesnt mean everynight. Since she refered to him as her "sort of bf" I doubt they are.

I ****ed girls that weren't even my "sort of gf." So, I assure you, that doesn't mean they aren't having sex.

[Only-virgins]

not neccisarily true, just cus she has a bf doesnt mean they are having sex

Yea, you tell yourself whatever helps you sleep at night.

[lightning88]

I ****ed girls that weren't even my "sort of gf." So, I assure you, that doesn't mean they aren't having sex.

so have I, we are guys its diff. When a girl calls someone her sort of bf it emplys something dont ya think? It either emplys they arnt entirly split but fighting or its just bs and she doesnt want this guy so she tells him she has a bf.........ive used the same excuse only "i have a gf" to girls I dont like.

[lightning88]

Yea, you tell yourself whatever helps you sleep at night.

shes not my gf I dont care who she f ucks ,lol
I'll sleep just fine,lol

[ridiculous]

its not like that. I would never try to "steal her". Im more patient than that. I have had to wait a long time before. but that does not mean im not going to explore my other options. I actually talked to her today about the situation, and I feel much better now and more confident. Really my greatest fear comes from the possibility of this guy p\trying to put a ring on her finger. (he is 25) I think her age (for now) might play to my benefit, i mean she is just turning 21 and i know she likes to go out and have fun.

what happens to the BF who cant physically be there for her all the time?

and what happens to the great guy that can be there for her?

only time will tell.

[ridiculous]

i dont think she sees him more than 2x a week...... Im pretty sure the number is even less than that. its a semi long distance relationship.

but you could be right. if she was my gf i would not want to spend any nights away from her.

[ridiculous]

Yea, you tell yourself whatever helps you sleep at night.

lol, did you think you were quoting me....?

[ridiculous]

I actually talked to her today, and feel better about my situation. Im about 95% sure that she did not just give me the "I have a bf" excuse to get rid of me. and their relationship is "complicated" if im right about that.


I am positive that I see her on a more regular basis than she sees her bf... I just don't get the luxury of spending extended periods of time with her, or doing all the sweet little things a bf should do.