Ok, so this isn't really about me and a guy, it's about the affects of relationships on friends. My best friend got a boyfriend, and i'm ok with that, except her bf is my brother. I wouldn't have a problem with that, in fact, i wanted them to get together coz i thought it would be cool but i've changed my mind now. i know it sounds selfish but i can't help how i feel. When they just fancied each other, she was sleeping over at my house quite alot, i don't know if it was just to see him but that's how it felt. The first thing she'd do when she woke up was go into my brother's room and she would be in his room or downstairs with him for most of the night, only returning to my bedroom when my mum forced her to. Now they're together. She knew i had a problem with her going off with him and we had several discussions about it and i thought we'd sorted it out but we hadn't coz the same thing happened again the next day. She said that she would share time equally between me and my brother but she doesn't. She only comes round to my house now because she's with my brother, and she hardly talks to me. i have to admit that i don't make and effort trying to talk to her but i feel really uncomfortable around her now, like i hardly know her at all. I also feel that even if we were still best friends, i couldn't tell her anything because she would tell my brother. I'm really depressed over it all but thankfully another friend (who i have not seen for months because i've been off school with illness) has been visiting me alot and sleeping over and stuff so i'm not as lonely as i could have been, or as i feel. Any suggestions on what i should do????
Thanks.