? about a girl

[g20016]

i've met guys like you. you're paralyzed. you need to be downright molested before you realize a girl is into you.

How did you know?

[misombra]

okay, now comes the barrage of questions...

how old are you? what do you do for a living? what type of people do you hang with?

[g20016]

early 30s, marketing, mostly yuppies.

Why?

[misombra]

well you're in a good position. don't worry about getting rejected. even the best looking people get rejected. the smartest people get rejected. the richest people, believe it or not, get rejected.

if you get rejected just say, well your loss then! and then move on.

disclosure is a good sign. when a woman discloses to a man she doesn't know very well, it's because she wants him to disclose a little too, and get to know him better.

[g20016]

well you're in a good position. don't worry about getting rejected. even the best looking people get rejected. the smartest people get rejected. the richest people, believe it or not, get rejected.

if you get rejected just say, well your loss then! and then move on.

disclosure is a good sign. when a woman discloses to a man she doesn't know very well, it's because she wants him to disclose a little too, and get to know him better.

Thanks, I'll keep my chin up and ask her out when I see her

If she says no and I act like it's no big deal, it probably wouldn't be awkward, where as later might be awkward.

[misombra]

i'm so confused. do you like her or what?

what is the temperature? mild? medium? spicy????

[g20016]

i'm so confused. do you like her or what?

what is the temperature? mild? medium? spicy????

Oh no, I like her. She's smart, does triathlons (like me), opinionated, and naturally pretty. But I don't think I can put a temperature to it yet, that's the kind of thing you only know after going out, I think. But of all the people I know, I would like to go out with her the most.

I like her, I just mean that at the time she says no, I can make it so it won't be awkward. Which was one of the reason stopping me or making me think twice (or three, four ....)

[misombra]

ask her out then come back here and let me know what she says.

[g20016]

will do boss!