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Thread: Almost perfect relationship

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    JJ, did you feel that spark in the beginning and then lose it? Or was it never there to begin with and you tried to talk yourself into being in love with her because she was such a good person?

    I've been in the latter situation and sadly, you can never really make that kind of thing work out without feeling like you're settling with something that's not enough.

    You're so young, why settle down now anyway? Given the fact that you don't feel like you're in love with her, this seems like a recipe for unhappiness.

    Don't you think your girlfriend deserves to be with someone who loves her just as much as she loves him? I say, let her go.
    “Inside every cynical person, there is a disappointed idealist”--George Carlin

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    Quote Originally Posted by JJBender87 View Post
    The probability of finding someone so compatible even down to the smallest things seems improbable for both of us though.

    I know this is true but I also know that if i end it, the chances are slim that we will find partners who give us what we already give, plus the small but very significant thing we both need, which is my being in love with her.
    Don't commit a crime against hope, JJ. You have no idea what life holds for you.
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