Hey everyone ...or anyone :-) never been on an online site before never mind o this one hah. However, this seemed to tick a lot of the boxes for me re' the information that i have read already. Dont know what the average age of the users of this site are, however I am not in my early ...not 30's and not 50's hah. Anyway, wished I'd addressed this shit long before, well well better late than never.
Anyway, I am looking for some solid advice, encouragement, and to develop hope that I can either chip away at this 'Nice guy' (co dependency crap that has got me by so far (to learn what not to do to make a healthy relationship) part in me or, to accept that part of me and work on gettting a balance of confidence/"cockiness" as these dating gurus say. Anyway, I reallt do want Change.....with help.
Whatever it takes I am willing to just do something different, so if you want to be direct and helpful , go for it. I need to toughen up anyway.
Could go on, however will wait see responses.
Cheers