Well I'm sure most of you know about the situation I had with my ex. Short version of it... We were dating VERY seriously for 3 years, she claims she lost feelings, broke up with me, dated another guy right away. It has been a little over 2 months since we broke up and I'm doing a lot better.
So here is the problem.
I have been trying to get out more, I have a potential date lined up for this week and since I'm excited about it I do want to talk about it so I mentioned it to me father. Somehow the word got out to my ex through my father or some other line of people that I had this potential date.
She either heard it as or interpreted it as that I have a new girlfriend.
so She finds this out today and texts me "So I head you have a new gf". I didnt have my phone with me so I didnt respond. 5 min later she texts. "I would like to talk sometime, because believe it or not I do miss you".
I saw these texts 1 hour after she sent them so I responded with something like this.
"I dont know where you heard I have a gf but that is untrue. Also we can talk when I come home next week if you want, or when I'm home for spring break but I'm going to Cali over spring break."
Now what the hell am I supposed to take away from those texts!?!? Seriously? I'm trying my hardest to get over this break-up, get out more, no communication, go on dates, etc.. Then the moment she hears I have a date or gf or w/e she texts me about it. Then when I dont respond she texts me that 2nd message?!?! WTF! Ya I obviously still have some feelings for her so these texts just stir up those feelings and put thoughts into my head.
They really pissed me off! I'm trying to just view them as nothing more than simple texts from an ex but it is so hard to do that.
any ideas guys?