What to do

[Alex16]

Hey, I'm new to the forum and I really need some advice. I barely ask advice for these kinds of things but here goes, I'll give my M.O.

I'm a 16 year old girl from Norway. I have known this boy for a while now. He is the same age as me and we get along quite nicely, and I have now discovered that I'm in love with him. We have hung out together 3 times before, but that was with other friends as well and first he really seemed to like me. But now we only talk on msn and he seemes quite neutral to me, just "buddyish" if you know what I mean.

I only thought of him as a friend really, even though we were flirting a bit. But now I'm afraid that my feelings for him will become so strong that I just can't ignore this. We don't know each other that well, and I'm very insecure...

I want to tell him, but I feel that it's an awfull idea, if he rejects me our friendship will never be the same. And I desperately don't want to lose what we have now but my feelings are getting stronger.

If anybody here has been in the same or likewise situation, I could really use some advice, what do I do? =/

Hugs from
Alex <3

[Anomaly]

I think that you should take your time with revealing your feelings for him, especially if you have only been friends for a short time. I also have the tendency to fall in love way too fast, and it just scares the girl away. But then again, it may be different for a guy to hear that, so you are better off waiting to see what a girls opinion is on that. I wish you the best of luck, you sound really sweet and you deserve the best!