I'm going to get married just to spite the lot of you.
Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever. - Mohandas Gandhi
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~
my reasons are probably selfish and are open to change tbh, but main reason is to not to have any kind of control over me, in a lot of ways i think marriage can be good financially and to tie the man down to his responsibilities but at the same time i'm torn due to the control that can be involved too. also i don't think any man is good enough for me to marry...yikes i do think i'm better...oops just revealed a card
Work like you don't need the money. Love like you've never been hurt. Dance like nobody's watching
I'm going to marry my fiancee and I hope to have a marriage that lasts just like my mother and father. They are my role models!
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~
it's more to do with a man having any kind of control, i don't mind kids having influence and control over me, i adore kids, they can control me all they like
Work like you don't need the money. Love like you've never been hurt. Dance like nobody's watching
That will come down to agreeing to a shared responsibility, You are not comfortable with that? Shared responsibility involves control in certain areas for both partners (meaning he will have certain control and you will have certain control) that's what being partners (equals) is all about. If you are not happy with sharing then it sounds like having kids for you would be a road straight to single mumdome (regardless if you are married or not).
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~
so far the arguments for getting married include, but are not limited to...
1) you can call somebody your "husband/wife" as opposed to "girlfriend/boyfriend."
2) because that's just what you do when you're pregnant or have kids.
3) in order to spite others.
wow, i'm totally convinced now.
baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.
That's very sad eco. I've seen what single mums go through. It's not very pretty. It's especially bad for the children.
A question. If you have such a poor opinion of men, why do you date them? Why do you go out with them? If it's already obvious where it's all going to lead, why bother?
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~
ooooooooooooo i'm seeing a little bit of the old mish coming back!
baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.
There's an old Mish?
why so sad.. i have a good situation where i am able to feel this way, life for me is not all about rules, if a man ever comes along and i feel he's good enough (i do have doubts) i may consider other options but tbh i love being in my life the way it is with maybe a regular guy to see every now and then and childmind when i feel like it, that would be ideal...but who knows what the future holds..i may change my mind, is superman out there? i don't think so. if i ever have a child i know that life for him/her will be better than having to accomodate a selfish man...maybe i'm wrong...somehow i doubt it
Work like you don't need the money. Love like you've never been hurt. Dance like nobody's watching