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    Quote Originally Posted by misombra View Post
    if my bf and i have children, our dedication and commitment toward our children or each other wouldn't be affected in the slightest by our marital status.
    I believe you Miso.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mishanya View Post
    I believe you Miso.

    you're brainwashed mish lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hollywood View Post
    Mish, suppose you get married and things don't work out. Do you feel the parents should remain in a broken marriage for the sake of the children?
    The parents should not remain in a broken marriage, they should do whatever they can to fix it. This (as well as genuine feelings) will be a number one quality I will look for in my partner to make sure they are suitable for marriage.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ecojeanne View Post
    i was talking about your stats
    I don't understand how the statistics I posted makes me box a person in. Care to explain?
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    Okay makes since. that's how me and my fiancee feel.

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    stats don't take every individual situation into account and also what about abusive fathers...does that get counted? every situation is different, single parent families can in a lot of cases do a lot better than being nuclear. what you read in stats are not necessarily the real facts...that you will learn
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    Quote Originally Posted by ecojeanne View Post
    stats don't take every individual situation into account and also what about abusive fathers...does that get counted? every situation is different, single parent families can in a lot of cases do a lot better than being nuclear. what you read in stats are not necessarily the real facts...that you will learn
    Ofcourse there are cases of abuse, in those situations children are better off when there is a separation. But majority of separations occur for reasons other than abuse and in majority of those cases children suffer as a result, many suffer a lot more than they would if both parents stayed together.
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    hey i don't deny that but overall the picket fence idea doesn't happen majority of the time, fair dues to anyone who makes it
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    i don't believe marriage makes it more difficult for people to break up. more expensive, yes? less easy? no.

    one could easily save up a hundred bucks or two per paycheck for a divorce, or ask their parents to borrow some money. hell my divorce would be free because i have free representation. woohoo!
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    look at the end of the day marriage is a silly piece of paper, even married people leave each other, marriage isn't going to make a blind bit of difference. the sad thing is the way people hold on to it like it's such an important thing to do...bullshit, good couples even break up over it, ridiculous
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    Quote Originally Posted by misombra View Post
    i don't believe marriage makes it less difficult for people to break up. more expensive, yes? less easy? no.

    one could easily save up a hundred bucks or two per paycheck for a divorce, or ask their parents to borrow some money. hell my divorce would be free because i have free representation. woohoo!
    It depends on which jurisdiction you are in. In some places there is a legal requirement for formal separation period before divorce can be finalised (6 months to a year). In some places there is a counseling requirement. You have to attend a court. You have to split property (another legal proceeding).

    It's not as simple as just "See ya, we broke up".
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    it's not that simple either way.
    baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Mishanya View Post
    Are you talking about what I said to you or what I said about children being better protected by marriage?
    For ****s sake, you put way to much emphasis on what a stupid piece of paper says. If two people live together, there is NO DIFFERENCE. Other than a higher tax or some shit like that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Only-virgins View Post
    For ****s sake, you put way to much emphasis on what a stupid piece of paper says. If two people live together, there is NO DIFFERENCE. Other than a higher tax or some shit like that.
    There is a big difference when kids are involved.

    Read back.
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    Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
    Towards the sun, carry your name
    In warm hands you are given
    Ask the wind for the way
    Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
    Accept all as it is and do not blame
    God or the Devil
    ~Born to Live - Mavrik~

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    No, dont' get married. Stay single forever and spread HIV/AIDS and all the other lovely infections and diseases to every stretch of humanity until almost everyone dies out. If you're going to stay single, you might as well sew a ****ing condom to your dick.

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