I met a man online last July, we spoke on the phone daily and then met in August. We have been seeing each other ever since. I am in love with him and think he is feeling the same way but I can not get him to open up and tell me.
He does call me honey and babe but not all the time.
Tonight I was with him and he was writing a list so we could run to the store. I was sitting next to him on the couch and he knew I was looking at it. He drew a heart around the stuff he had on the list. What does this mean? Was this a way for him to try to show he is feeling something without actually saying it?
Any insight would be great. Also, any ideas on how to get him to open up and tell me without sounding like I am pushing.
Thanks,
Sharon
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16-03-09, 11:00 AM #1
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What does it mean?
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Have you told him "I love you" yet? If not, what are you complaining about?
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If seeing each other for 8 months since July wasn't a clue enough, the heart could be an indication that he likes you
Originally Posted by sharonrose98
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
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I would imagine he has feelings for you... it can be a bit of a dilemma on who says "I love you" first... you know him well enough to determine if he would be more inclined to either wait and see... or take the initiative...
If he's the one to take the 'wait and see' approach... then you may have to be the one to start the conversation about how strongly you feel towards him..."The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."
- James Allen
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16-03-09, 11:27 AM #5
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Thanks. I want to say it, I do see signs that make me beleive he does feel that way. Just afraid to push him away. I am going to have to say it soon though. I can't stand not saying it anymore. Sometimes it almost slips out and I catch myself. I don't just want to blurt it out like that. Maybe next time we are together I will get the guts to say it first!
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Be sure to start a conversation about it first... then you can note his reaction to it... if it's positive.. then by all means say those three little words... if he's not reacting quite so favorably.. then you know it's best to wait a little while longer...
"The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."
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16-03-09, 11:58 AM #7
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I will be sure to do that. Thanks so much.
