Need HELP!

[DL21]

Hi,
Here's the story...I had been dating a girl who's a year younger than me and everything was going great.
Then, I went off to college 6 hours away and things obviously got harder, but I still wanted to be with her. We had been dating for over a year, but then out of nowhere she dumped me. I have no problem with the fact that she decided not to be with me anymore because everyone's entitled to do what they want, but the way she did it was what really upset me.
After she dumped me, she wouldn't let me talk to her about it, she wouldn't answer my phone calls, and (I know this is really stupid, but it really got to me) she set her facebook status to: Kelly is happy...finally : ). It was like she turned into a totally different person. She made fun of me for the insecurities that I confided in her about and she made me feel like I was so easy to get rid of. The only people that were really there for me were my best friend and my sister.
Then, about a month after she broke up with me we started talking again. She told me how sorry she was and that she wishes she never said those things to me. Now she wants to be with me again. The thing is that I really did love her, but I don't know if I could ever forget the things she said. And my best friend and sister hate her now. I just really need help because I have no idea what to do.
Thanks

[kate_spencer]

Do you really think she could be trusted again? I mean, if I were your sister or your best friend, I would feel the same way. They're just protecting you from the possibility that your ex will not hurt you again.
Have you talked about why she dumped you before? Cause you have the right to know, but whenever her reason was, if she's really concerned about you.. she'll tell you her reasons for breaking up with you and will not make fun of you on facebook. And now, she wants you back like nothing happened? You better think twice, thrice, a hundred times, before you decide.

[Gigabitch]

I'd just like to mention that every girl I have ever met with that name was a total bitch, without exception.