Originally Posted by
bud2075
I guess that its true that she must know those are hurtful comments,but it really seems she is more interested in being honest rather than saying something untrue just to make me feel better.I guess I prefer the honesty but it still kinda stings when you hear someone that you love, tell you that it was better with someone else primarily for that reason
In regards to the OP, there is nothing wrong with honesty... but neither is there nothing wrong with tact. If she wants to be honest she can mention once that she noticed a difference with someone who was larger than you. After that... there really isn't any need to bring it up again... Rather, she should've spent more time working with you to improve the sexual experience than to remind you that a larger dick was better.
Why constantly remind you of something that is beyond your control? If a larger dick matters so much to her that she has to bring it up constantly... than it's no fault of yours. She needs to go out and find such a dick with a man attached --- NOT make you feel inadequate because she is so cavernous and desires a larger male.
Either way... she was wrong to repeatedly bring up an ex... and was wrong to repeatedly voice how small she thinks you are. There are plenty of women who are perfectly content with men smaller than this woman's apparent demands of a man. So once more... the fault does not lie with you.. but with her. If she needs a larger male, then she needs to stop wasting your time... and most of all, she needs to stop making you feel insecure, when it's apparent that she is larger than average for a female.
This is a HER problem... not a YOU problem...
Last edited by Aeradalia; 24-03-09 at 04:52 AM.
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