Advice?

[Rook1]

Hello there =]
well this is my situation.

all right..
There's this girl that i've been talking to for about 3 months..
and we started growing feelings towards each other.. she
even left her boyfriend for me!

so we started going out and messing around and ect..
but the things is the only time that i can see her is
when she goes over her cuzins house and the only
place we can keep in touch on is the internet!
which pisses me off because that's just lame!

and another thing she had gone to a party and gotten
drunk really drunk and made out with someone..
=( which hurt a lot!! even though i never asked her to be
my girlfriend.. she said she was sorry and now is acting
like if nothing happend.. ahhhh i told her that we needed
to talk in person.. i don't know what to say or do?!?!!?!?!!?!


i'm sorry if this is long this has just been confusing for me.
thank you.

[Cbrider]

Slap a Mr. Yuck sicker on her forehead and walk away. Anyone who is willing to walk away from one relationship for the sole purpose of jumping for another one is someone to avoid.

[Rook1]

hmmm..i don't know it's different with her she had
all these problems with her ex he was jealous and
controling he even stalked her...

thanks for your advice though.
=]

[Cbrider]

hmmm..i don't know it's different with her she had
all these problems with her ex he was jealous and
controling he even stalked her...

thanks for your advice though.
=]

I don't care if he held a gun to her head, her actions scream poison. She's not a bad person or someone you could never hook up with, but she needs some time to get her shit in order.

[alovehangoverr]

hmmm..i don't know it's different with her she had
all these problems with her ex he was jealous and
controling he even stalked her...

thanks for your advice though.
=]

Not to be insensitive or anything, but all of that doesn't really matter [and I would question the validity of those statements if they came solely from her and you have no proof that any of this actually happened-- it's common practice for someone looking to step out of a relationship to make their current situation seem terrible to a potential replacement so that said replacement doesn't think the person is a bad person for pursuing a potential something outside the current relationship-- just saying.]

The point is, if the situation was as bad as she claimed-- she would have left for HERSELF and not for YOU a while ago.

Are you really that surprised she hooked up with someone else?

A few other questions-- why can't you talk to her outside the internet? Does she not have a cell phone? House phone? Can you not visit her? I'm confused.

[Rook1]

i don't know. i think i'm going to just let her go.

nah she doesn't have a phone..and she lives in a area
where i have a bunch of enemies so i would get jumped
if i went over her house.

[lolly25]

I think the best thing you can do is move on. It sounds like she was wanting an excuse to get out of her previous relationship and she used you as that excuse.

Also she has done this once what is to say that she would not do it to you.

Also it sounds like you are the re bound and she needs to be single for a while. She clearly is not ready for another relationship.

You are better off to move on. There are plenty more people out there, ones that will give you the respect that you deserve.