My girlfriend and I broke up about a month ago. (She broke up with me)... and I want her back. I have been very patient... almost no communication, I waited a month before I called her. I asked her out for coffee and she agreed. She actually said she was excited to see me. I want to get her back. The reason she broke up with me was the "trust factor" problem in our relationship... I lied to her on a few occasions, and the most recent lie was when she broke things off with me. Now I dont know what to do on this "date", what I really want to do is tell her I still have feelings for her, and that I know we can make this work if her heart is still in it. I want to tell her I know she is the one girl I want to spend my life with... but is this the actual best strategy? Would it be more benificial to me to just act nonchalant like everything has been fine and that im OK without her?
What to do? I would love a girls perspective. We went out for 3 and a half years. Thanks.