Big picture? Big f-ing picture?? Last I checked this is an internet forum. There is no big picture to see.
You folks are damned lucky Vash and Giga are willing to dispense their advice.
Now, why don't you quit jumping off topic, Donfor25, and post something relevant to the OPs conundrum instead of spewing a bunch of pathetic bull. Thank you and have a nice day.
Ahem. To the OP:
I don't think you should hold out for the guy. By my books what he's done is pretty decent. He doesn't want to include you in his emotional bullshit. However, waiting around for him to fix his ain't fair to you. I think you should see other people and enjoy yourself. When he's better,who knows, maybe you'll be single then and the two of you can start anew.
God, so atrocious in the Old Testament, so attractive in the New--the Jekyl and Hyde of sacred romance.
-Mark Twain
If people are good only because they fear punishment and hope for reward, then we are a sorry lot indeed.
-Albert Einstein