so i had something different happen to me

[eh26]

ok so something strange happen to me at a lounge I was in, I was with a buddy hanging out when i see a very cute young lady standing by the bar ,great smile , amazing eyes , but looks like she had lots in her mind, so i go talk to her , tells me she's with her friends but she is here for her friends bday , she says she dont drink but hardly goes out but when she does go out its there ect. , we end up having some dances together , enjoying each others company then we start kissing , but i something was different here, at one point I forgot that i was in the club, krazy , she looked at me and whispered in my ear dont fall in love with me, I was WHAT?!! she then reply's with a real flirty punch to my arm giggling , I never got that response before, i pondered that she dont want to hurt me when we just met, then she gives me a big hug and we go sit down , we start kissing again , but it felt real effectionious like giving me little pecks then cuddling with me , wow ,so I ask for her number then she bacome hesitant then she says , she is bipolar , so i take a step back , but by then im so zoned in her that it didnt matter to me, by the end of the night I hint it again for her number then again she gets hesitent, looking like she has lots in her mind , my friend is leaving so i have to go by that point , I tell her I have to go ,she says k , so I walk then look back and she gives me that "dam thats messed up look" , now im so confused ,did i make a right choice??? I the type of guy that respects a womens decision , but the night with her was different , I have all these things in my mind , if its a lie she told me about being bipolar, why she get mad when I walked away , then she says to not get close to her , but showed me affection like no other grl cuddling , huging me hard ?? dunno ....I enjoyed her company but that tripped me out .....

[carl1222]

She's a few fries short of a happy meal. She did you a favor by not giving you her number.

Carl.

[alovehangoverr]

Sounds like she's a troubled girl and she used you for a hook up/some affection.

If a girl is going to give you the warning that she doesn't want you develop feelings for her, she's bipolar [pretty crazy since you barely know each other], and be super hesitant in giving you her number so you can contact her again-- you should take the warnings she's laying out for you, and realize that she's not looking for anything with you.

[Lonely Island]

Its a woman

What do you expect?

[eh26]

Sounds like she's a troubled girl and she used you for a hook up/some affection.

If a girl is going to give you the warning that she doesn't want you develop feelings for her, she's bipolar [pretty crazy since you barely know each other], and be super hesitant in giving you her number so you can contact her again-- you should take the warnings she's laying out for you, and realize that she's not looking for anything with you.

i know ,thats what my buddy said , i never had an experiance with a bipolar grl , at least none that I know , krazy I was confused and wondered by her mood changes , at least she warned me straight forward