first kiss

[joecakes]

do you need to ask a girl to kiss her or should you just go ahead and kiss? ive been dating a girl and i havent kissed her yet cuz i have no balls. btw, this girl im dating had never kissed anyone yet... which intimidates me a bit hehe.

thanks!
Joe

[TheGreek]

Don't ask.

[Indignant]

ooooh, how old are you?

[joecakes]

im 20... so if i just go ahead and do it, then she turns her face to avoid my kiss that would suck ass big time. is there another way that can save my dignity abit?

[devilsfangs]

how old is she? why has she not kissed anyone before, is it a religious reason, a family reason? maybe she has put on such an air, that no one is willing to risk it Unless there is some specific reason she hasn't kissed anyone, I would go ahead and kiss her, maybe she has been waiting for someone with balls to do it.

[DoesntMatter]

Maybe having a little more certainty on the outcomes would help

Move in and kiss her when you want and think its a good time, and don't hesitate. If she accepts, it's settled. If she doesn't, leave her

[TheGreek]

Ask her, "do you want to kiss me." If she says yes, kiss her. If she says maybe, say, "then let's find out," and then kiss her. If you choose at least a semi-decent time she most likely won't say know.

[lovesjoyajm]

DM, I don't know how long you've had that as your sig, but I love the fact that you quote Euler.

[Tea for Two]

You don't NEED to ask. You can ask playfully, so the question itself is a part of the flirting leading to a kiss.

Oh, and, don't worry if it turns out awkwardly a few times. People take time to harmonize.

[carl1222]

im 20... so if i just go ahead and do it, then she turns her face to avoid my kiss that would suck ass big time. is there another way that can save my dignity abit?

F**k your dignity, it's your job!

If she has a moral objection to the kiss, and she likes you (I assume she does since you are dating), then she will explain why she is rejecting your kiss. But if you don't even try, she will assume you aren't all that interested and will start looking elsewhere for a guy who is.

Carl.

[TheGreek]

F**k your dignity, it's your job!

If she has a moral objection to the kiss, and she likes you (I assume she does since you are dating), then she will explain why she is rejecting your kiss. But if you don't even try, she will assume you aren't all that interested and will start looking elsewhere for a guy who is.

Carl.

Bingo! Learned that the hard way and will definitely not make that mistake again.

[Lonely Island]

Go for it

Unless she is under the age of 18

if thats the case.....

[geejay1221]

hmm.. i think it just happens.. haha. when you look at her
in the eye.. telling to kiss you, then just do it!
it's all about your style man!
have guts! haha. i know you could do it!