He swatted me!

[misombra]

Actually, I made that comment about "yes, I can be a huge brat at times" long AFTER the "gentlemen" in question assumed that I was whining and sulking simply because my boyfriend called me a brat. Just because I can be one at times (everyone has bad days) does not mean that I was in this instance. They assumed that my behaviour led to my boyfriend striking out at me. My point was simply that even if I had been acting badly, there is not excuse.

what have you done about it or what will you do about it?

[Indignant]

been really busy lately with all the holidays. going to the mountains tomorrow, coming back this weekend. no time for anything lately.

[IndiReloaded]

As far as I know, I'm not omitting anything. even if I were, and he were "being patient all night" my question is about him Swatting me! Are you inferring that it's ok to not control your anger...if someone pushes you to the limit? I happen to know that I can be a HUGE brat at times, but those are MY actions that I need to control.

I can't tell what 'swatting' is from the original post.

I can tell that he squeezed her hand, hard, until it hurt b/c he was frustrated at her 'making' him leave a concert.

All you did was find out that these kinds of events are not for you. He should NOT have behaved the way he did, I think it was very small of him. Anymore than someone should get upset finding out that one's partner gets sick from eating at a seafood restaurant.

What you do about this, tho, is up to you. At minimum, you should tell him this, calmly, and let him know he owes you an apology.

Did you even understand this^ post?

[IndiReloaded]

BTW, you seem to be moving from 'swat' to he 'struck' you.

Why don't you just tell everyone where he hit you & how hard?

[noturavvrgrl]

I can see I came to the wrong forum. I had no idea my words would be twisted in such a manner. Swatted, struck, hit, etc. To me, it's all laying your hands on someone. Goodbye.

[lesa]

Wowwwwww! Very interesting response by the OP!

Most of us (if not all of us) agreed that he should not have done what he did especially since he was not playing.

You must the biggest pain in the ass I would ever want to encounter.

Our response the majority of time and said over and over was that what he did was not right. What more do you want us to say? Dump him if necessary. Call the police? Curse him out? Beat him up if you can?

I don't understand the last post. No need to get defensive because some posts are trying to guess what other things may have happened. You are intelligent enough to know that he should not have acted the way he did.

If someone posts that you should have been murdered hopefully you would not take it too seriously.

Nevertheless, I will say again that his behavior is NOT excused (no matter what the other posters say). You do not like the response that some have given and decided to dismiss the whole thread?

He should never have swatted you, but I now can understand why he did.


Just playing. Relax a little.

Can I assume that you two broke up?

[Junket]

Good, I don't want a liar like you posting on these boards.

Notice how slowly she started to reveal the facts, and how they differed from the "truth" she originally presented.

I was on to you since the beginning.

[Cain]

Good, I don't want a liar like you posting on these boards.

Notice how slowly she started to reveal the facts, and how they differed from the "truth" she originally presented.

I was on to you since the beginning.

You're like an Asian Sherlock Holmes.

[Junket]

You're like an Asian Sherlock Holmes.

To the maxcore.

[Charlie Boy II]

I think she needs another spanking.

[sheepingly]

lol i would've kicked his ass.

I would have too

[1sxybtch]

i don't know... sounds kinda hot to me... of course, maybe he should have waited until they got home and then let the fun really begin...

[Cbrider]

You need to get laid

Sounds like an offer to me.