Some advice.

[RandomGuy101]

Well i have been going out with this amazing girl for around 8 months and it has been going great, we knew each other for 5 months before we started to go out.

There was some trust issues at the start becuase i was going out with another girl as friends only, i would never cheat. but when she told me she didnt like it i stopped.

Recently she has been spending alot of time with another guy that she has been friends with for around 10 years but she told me she doesnt like him in that way its just becuase they have been friends for so long. There is no trust issues there i trust her 100%

Today she tells me that she wont be able to see me till Tuesday but then later on asked me do i want to head out with them tomorrow.

I feel so annoyed that she is spending more time with him than me but i really dont know how to tell her without making it sound like i'm trying to smother her which i'm not.

Advice please?

[MavViper]

let me get this straight, you 2 are bf/gf and she says she cant see you until Tuesday but that you can head out there tomorrow to go out with them?

How far apart do you 2 live? I think the easiest way to bring this up to her would be to tell her "While I am happy that you are having fun, I would like to have more us time."


I actually find it kind of ironic that in the beginning you were going out with a girl as friends only but stopped when she said she didn't like it. Now she is doing the same thing to you apparently, going out with a guy as friend's only. Why not tell her you don't like it?

[vashti]

Maybe you should tell her you can't hang out with her tomorrow because you are meeting up with your old friend (that girl) to catch up. What's good for the goose...

[RandomGuy101]

let me get this straight, you 2 are bf/gf and she says she cant see you until Tuesday but that you can head out there tomorrow to go out with them?

How far apart do you 2 live? I think the easiest way to bring this up to her would be to tell her "While I am happy that you are having fun, I would like to have more us time."


I actually find it kind of ironic that in the beginning you were going out with a girl as friends only but stopped when she said she didn't like it. Now she is doing the same thing to you apparently, going out with a guy as friend's only. Why not tell her you don't like it?

Yeah we are bf/gf she is working everyday till tuesday, we live very close its a 5 minute walk from my house to hers.

I like the girl alot, she is very special, likes everything i like so thats why i stopped hanging out with my friend thats a girl when she told me she didnt like it.

[t0ri]

Seems like she's setting a double standard. She can hang with her guy friend, but you're not allowed to see your female friend.

Tell her you're uncomfortable with how much time she spends with this guy. She shouldn't find that smothering since she voiced the same opinion about your female friend.