There is no 'the one'. Everyone is a disgusting, hedonistic, selfish narcissist a few heartbeats away from a sadistic psychopath (in their own unique special way).
Being with the one can only be considered from the point of view of how much of their insanity is similar to ours (and therefore bearable).
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~