Probably Won't Be Online Much Longer...

[Sonrisa]

on a lighter note, maybe Aeradelia made this all up to create a new username and start all over on this forum, hee hee

[Mish]

Yeah, I would definitely fight that fraudulent lease agreement. I mean, wasn't the building manager THERE when it was signed? Is she honestly going to sit there and tell you she SAW you sign documents that you didn't.

Oh hell no, you need to fight that.

Definitely^^^ You could theoretically milk this. I don't know what it's like in US, but here in Australia tenants have some pretty decent rights. The landlord can't kick you out without taking it to department of fair trading tenancy tribunal and in front of their judge. Here is how it goes here, 3 week outstanding rent = landlord can lodge a tribunal request. 4 weeks later both of you appear in front of tribunal panel and state your case. The panel decides on alternative action and either absolves the tenant or gives another 3 week deadline to pay the rent, only after that deadline expires can they give legal power to landlord to kick the tenant out. This would allow at least 10 weeks of unpaid rent in the worst case scenario. In the best case scenario they will find the landlord guilty of fraud and you won't have to pay anything.

I'm sorry to hear about your mum. Unbelievable that she treats you like this after all you've done for her. She's a twisted, sick, poisonous woman, put as much distance between you and her as you can.

[Junket]

give mom an ultimatum about filing a police report for stolen identity, but family is forever.

Family is not forever.

That kind of mindset only allows bullshit like this to happen.

Sorry Aera, I wish I could be of more help to you, but we're moving into a smaller 3 bedroom apartment, I don't think my roommates would appreciate squeezing so many people into the house.

Then again...check your PM's.

[lesa]

I am sorry to hear that you are going through this Aeradalia. The dad deal seems like a good temporary help. As for the apartment manager, I would be extremely tempted to ignore paying any balance and just sneak out because she seems corrupt.

[Aeradalia]

on a lighter note, maybe Aeradelia made this all up to create a new username and start all over on this forum, hee hee

Heh... not fond of the stylish signatures Frasbee hands out when he spots the same IP address on a different username.

Perhaps other people crave attention like this... I do not.

My mom changed her mind and wants me to stay for an additional two weeks... I've decided to talk it over with some Jagermeister and see how I feel about it in the morning.

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Oh... perhaps a bit sentimental... and though I've stated in my initial introduction (you can back track if you'd like)... my name is Jennifer. Aeradalia was a name I made up one day when I first logged onto to Runescape --- thought it sounded 'midieval' enough.

[misombra]

your mom is fuked up.

[Mish]

This is so sad

[Gigabitch]

Um, I say go through her purse and get your shit back, then on to Plan A with the sneaking and the cat.

[Gribble]

You're one of my favorite posters. I'm really pissed that this shit has happened to you.

**** your mom over good. See if there's anything you can do about that forged lease and throw the bill her way.

Blood is not thicker than water. Some parents are just pure shit and they should be treated as such.

[Aeradalia]

Thank you all for your support... I'll be heading to my Dad's this weekend... at least, that's the plan. I'm not taking anything for granted.

Should be able to talk with a few friends... pull a few strings and if all goes well... have a job waiting on me when I get there.

Though I have put out a few ads for roommates... as I really don't want to leave Dallas if I don't have to.

As for my mom... I think cutting her loose is the best way to go. Vindictiveness tends to bite you in the ass as karma's a bitch. She can do what she wants... so long as she's far away from me.

[Indignant]

but guys, what if her mom is mentally challenged, which i am sure she is. she did have a hard life after all. do we kick our closest ones out as soon as they go insane? what if Jennifer becomes the same way when she reaches 40, does her offspring get rid of her as soon as she becomes a nuisance?

[Aeradalia]

but guys, what if her mom is mentally challenged, which i am sure she is. she did have a hard life after all. do we kick our closest ones out as soon as they go insane? what if Jennifer becomes the same way when she reaches 40, does her offspring get rid of her as soon as she becomes a nuisance?

Her ability to think and carry out plans seems to be intact. She knows what's right and wrong (she taught me these things after all)... and she has never liked me. With my brother she is perfectly 'normal.' I doubt a mental illness would have a person act crazy to one individual and normal to everyone else... I see a conscious, sane decision being made here.

I've went through every excuse I could think of over the years to explain her behavior towards me. Swallowed my anger time and time again. Now, I just don't care anymore. Some people just really don't like you... sometimes such people happen to be family. Guess that's just the way life is.

[Gribble]

but guys, what if her mom is mentally challenged, which i am sure she is. she did have a hard life after all. do we kick our closest ones out as soon as they go insane? what if Jennifer becomes the same way when she reaches 40, does her offspring get rid of her as soon as she becomes a nuisance?

If a parent fails a parent fails. There's no excuse. Mental illness. Lack of money. Youthful ignorance. In the end it's the child who pays for the faults of the parent.

My mom once asked me what she could do to repair our relationship. After correcting her that we did not, in fact, have a relationship but that I was only in touch with her because my sister was under her care, I then told her that there was one thing she could do to make amends. Be a mother to me when I needed her 20 years ago. So once time travel is perfected I'm sure all will be hunky-dory between us.

Vindictiveness has nothing to do with any of it, Aere. Someone forged your name. If your mother isn't willing to walk into that office and set things straight you should do whatever you have to to stick her with the bill that's rightfully hers. Vindictive would be totaling her car to make up for the difference. Which is something I'd seriously consider doing were I in your shoes, but then I don't believe in karma. Good things happen to those who **** people over and stab them in the back. All that feel-good "what goes around comes around" bullcrap is just what tyrants want their victims to think and what victims accept because it makes their feeble lives endurable.

Believe me, whoever came up with the idea of karma did so because he wanted people to tolerate his demands meekly.

[vashti]

I think you should look at this as an opportunity to finally get rid of her for good. File a police report and press charges, then don't speak to that toxic woman again.

[Cbrider]

I'm sorry to hear about all this

Fortunately you are NOT the person your mother is and not capable of being such a terrible person!

You can't let this slide, it doesn't matter who it is, forgery is forgery and EXTREMELY serious. People can destroy other peoples lives with forgery, it happens all the time. If you can't do it for yourself, do it for the next person. People like your mother don't stop at one, for all you know, she my defraud someone on this forum next.

You deserve your happy life and your mother AND the landlord are standing in your way. BTW, that landlord is in just as hot, if not hotter water than your mother. He/she accepted that lease KNOWING it wasn't you signing....they lied to cover a lie.

Go to court and get your money back, theres not a judge on this planet who would rule against you. Call your local police station and get in contact with someone who can sit down and walk you through forgery and your rights.

You are such a better person for handling this the way you ware, I couldn't pull it off. Never let anyone tell you that you are anything less than extraordinary.